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Full article from the NY Times:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/10/education/10asians.html
Welcome to the world of a cynical (yet idealist) queer Muslim.
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I have developed a site entitled "Matrimonials for
Same-sex Marriages"
http://k.domaindlx.com/pg22/ss_matrimonials.html
You can use this site if you are looking for a
same-sex life-partner and you are an Indian or a
native of one of India's neighbouring countries, i.e.,
Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Bhutan, Maldives, Nepal,
Pakistan, Sri Lanka and Myanmar(Burma). You can also
use this site if you are a national of any other
country who wants to have an Indian as his/her life
partner.
The site has provision for publishing your matrimonial
and searching the database depending upon the choice
of your partner.
While publishing your matrimonial on the site, you can
choose your marital status from the following three
options:
1. Un-entangled (Un-married, Widow/Widower, Divorcee,
Separated)
2. Entangled in a Hetero-Marriage but can take divorce
after getting partner
3. Entangled in a Hetero-Marriage and cannot take
divorce, want a family friend
If you want to know who is a 'family friend', please
see the following web-page:
http://k.domaindlx.com/pg22/family_friend.html
Please give as much publicity to this site as
possible. Inform all your friends about it.
They are giving us extreme pain by continuously
refusing us our right to marriage. Let us reduce this
pain from the earth as much as possible by arranging
marriages even without this right. Please wipe tears
from the eternally weeping eyes of crores of Indian
men, women, and children.
Your suggestions, comments, opinion all are acceptable
and solicited.
Regards and thanks.
Yours
Prashant
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PS: Even if you are not looking for a life partner,
kindly visit my site and help in publicising it by
informing all your friends about it.
(if the site is down, then please try after some time.
Sometimes the web-server may be having excessive
traffic. We are taking up the case with our web-space
providers.)
In case, the site has been blocked in your country,
please send mail to pg2@yahoo.com. I will tell you
some
alternative. (UAE has blocked this site.)
Bollywood, fun, friendship, sports and more. You name it, we have it on http://in.promos.yahoo.com/groups/bestofyahoo/
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/africa/article3418259.ece
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"The beauty of the world has two edges, one of laughter, one of anguish, cutting the heart asunder."
-Virginia Woolf
"So many tangles in life are ultimately hopeless that we have no appropriate sword other than laughter."
- Gordon W. Allport
Now, it is my contention that crying is beneficial and good for the constitution, as long as it is not inappropriate, out of place or excessive. It is a mark of gentleness and remote from cruelty. It may be considered a kind of redemption and akin to the intensity of feeling we experience towards those whom we love. It is one of the things that brings people closer together and by which those who live in fear seek mercy…
If such is the case with tears, what do you think about laughter, where the laugher experiences such boundless pleasure that he quite forgets why he is laughing? If laughter was something offensive on the part of the laugher or of its cause, why should a flower, a pretty dress, jewellery or a fine house be said to be ‘as if laughing’?
The Word of God says, ‘He it is who maketh laugh and cry. He it is who giveth life and death.’ [Quran, 53:33-34] thus has the Lord linked laughter with life and coupled tears with death. He does not ascribe unto Himself that which is repugnant or bestow imperfection on His creation. How can laughter fail to play a major part in human happiness and physical well-being when it is something in the basic fabric of temperament and character?
Laughter is the first fine thing to appear in an infant. It delights the child’s soul, puts flesh on his ribs and increases the blood supply, which is the cause of happiness and the substance of good health.